Impress Your Girl
Michael Messner

A lot of guys believe that to make an impression on your girlfriend or wife, you need to spend a lot of money. After all, what says it better than diamonds or a new mercedes? Perhaps a trip to Hawaii or $200 tickets to the best show in town? Sure, anyone would like to receive a new car, but the woman in your life would probably like to know that you think of her, that you care. The right romantic gesture might say it as well as a diamond - sometimes better! The problem is that most guys are more likely to just order a dozen roses and let it go at that. Roses are a nice gift, but not very personal. If you really want your woman to take notice, read on. Next time you're planning an evening together, why not put together an indoor picnic? For less money than you'd spend at a nice resturant, you can find a dim lightbulb, some candles, maybe a few potted plants. You can put a blanket in the middle of the room and with dinner set for two. Go for cold foods - this makes it feel more like a picnic. If you aren't really too good in the kitchen, order food from a local deli. Really nice sandwiches - roast beef or chicken breast - on rolls (no onions), her favorite side dishes, and finish off with strawberries with chocolate sauce on the side. You can take turns feeding them to each other, and who knows what that can lead to?

Have you been listening when she tells you her romantic and sexual fantasies? Hopefully so. Spend a half hour writing her a letter - even if you live together. Weave a fantasy between you based on her fantasy. Write her a scenario. If she loves the thought of being licked up and down her body for a long time, incorporate that. If she always wanted to be fucked anonymously in a doorway, write about that. Write it either as if you are doing it right as it's being written ("I pull off your bra, and your nipples harden") or write it as something you'd like to do, and will do ("I'd love to see your face as I run my tongue up your thigh"). Send her a entire fantasy in which you and she are the stars. She'll love it, and probably re-read it more than once.

Or how about this? The next time you are spending an evening or afternoon together with no distractions, give her a massage. Before you see her, spend a little time shopping for oil or powder (both work to reduce the friction between your hands and her skin). Or if you think she'd prefer, tell her what you're going to do and take her shopping with you. The local health food store or the local sex shop should have a variety of oils just right for massage. Make sure you pick one that is pleasant to smell and to touch. Start by massaging her neck and head. You don't have to start undressed for this, so it's a good way to set the mood. Soft music is good for this, instrumental if possible. Always be firm but not rough. If you touch some areas too lightly, you could cause tickling. Take your time on her shoulders and neck, always a tension spot. Encourage her to talk to you while you gently work her muscles.

Work your way to her arms and hands. Do not rush. Enjoy feeling her skin and knowing that you are making her feel good. Then work your way to her calves. Eventually you will get to her back, and her thighs. Do not instantly grab at her breasts or between her legs. Remember, you are doing this to treat her. When you get her shirt off, let her lie down some- where comfortable and rub her upper back and lower back, using the oil. Firm, long strokes and kneading massage work best here. After you've been massaging her for a while, try giving her light kisses on the side of her neck while you continue. If you don't mind the oil, you can kiss her back, the back of her knees, or anything that looks right. More slow, light kisses can follow each part of the massage. You have the whole evening ahead of you. Take your time, but do watch for signs that she's ready for more - you wouldn't want to keep her waiting.

Most women are very happy when you give your time and thought to them. Everyone likes to feel important, and if you take the time to show your woman that she is special to you, you'll be glad you did!